Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Create a Secure Relationship is a book by Stan Tatkin. It explores how early attachment experiences shape adult relationships and provides tools to help couples understand each other's emotional needs and create a secure bond.
that has sort of led me to get interested in your work in uh people like Stantkin as well
""The speaker mentioned being interested in the work of 'Stantkin,' which is a likely mispronunciation of Stan Tatkin, a prominent psychologist and author in the field of relationships and attachment theory. 'Wired for Love' is one of his most well-known and relevant books that aligns with the conversation's theme of understanding relationship mechanisms."